Saturday, March 8, 2014

Loving your body

Alright, so remember when I said that it was important to change for you? If you remember then pay close attention to what I am about to say because this little tid bit of information could help you in the long run. There are many ways to love your body, whether it’s taking the time to work on your looks or even going for a short walk with one of your close friends, or by yourself if you feel more comfortable that way. One way I love my body is by exercising three times a week. Now don’t get me wrong, I am very much in love with who I am, but loving myself also means I need to stay healthy. While exercise might also cause you to drop a few pounds, it also boosts your confidence and gives you more energy to do daily tasks. Working out and seeing your body change definitely will help change your attitude towards yourself and even life. When you start feeling good about what you have accomplished your whole perception changes. It not only helps your posture, muscle definition, cardiovascular system, sex life, brain power, and strength, it will also put you in the sexy zone. How can you not feel confident and ready for the world? There are millions of microscopic functions that go on in our bodies every day, and you don’t even have to think about them. They just happen! Unfortunately, it often takes a crisis or a tragedy, such as a brush with death, a go-around with a disease, or a debilitating accident for some women to realize that their bodies weren’t so bad to begin with and that their body hang-ups were a big waste of time. Don’t let that be the case with you! How much time are you spending each day worrying about your weight, your body shape, the size of your rear? What could you be doing during that time? Maybe you’re supposed to be the first female president, but you’ll never know because you’re too busy obsessing about your body! Take a step back and spend more time living your life and in time, if you work out and eat healthy you will see a big change in not only your body, but your attitude.


Friday, March 7, 2014

Introduction into the bloggers life

Look at me and what do you see? Am I a slob? Or do you see me as,"That fat girl from school"? To my friends, I am Beth. I am not the,"Fat girl." Stereotypes are everywhere, but the stereotype that consumes my life, is the one where I am labeled for not being skinny. Weighing in at 400 pounds, I have often been discriminated against for my weight, not given the time to show people the real me. Who am I really? Well, lets start with this. I am a proud BBW woman. I value my body and love it just the way it is. Do I want to improve my body? Yes, I do. Will I improve my body for anyone other than myself? No. I am beautiful just the way I am and if I make the choice to change, it will be for me and only me. Looking at me, most would see me for my looks. But, to others I am the girl with the loudest voice in the choir, I am the girl with the outstanding personality. I am that girl that gives compliments to the other girls who treat her like nothing. Why do I compliment those who belittle me? It's simple. I am not them. Although, their minds are shallow and they refuse to see my inner beauty, I refuse to let that effect who I am. The most important thing to being me, is loving others for every fault they have. Who am I to judge any other living soul? Being the girl who has been stereotyped, why would I, myself, stereotype anyone else? Knowing the pain it brings, why would I put another person through that, a person who may not be as strong as I am? A simple shout out to all of those struggling with weight and who they are, love yourself. Love your body. Love the person you are and you can change the world. With a positive attitude and a set mind, you can fight back. Not using the same hateful words that are shot at you, but by proving to all of those who belittle you that YOU are not going to be judged. You are not going to let their words effect you. You are a strong, beautiful/handsome person and you are proud of it. So, in conclusion to my brief revelation of who I am.. Who do you think I am?